What would it take for you to believe you are worthy of love?
Years ago, in my 20’s I would get hit on a lot but love always eluded me. It almost seemed impossible the way it would. I would have a couple dates, things would be going so well and then … POOF! The guy would completely disappear. Then again with a new date shortly after- I would start to get excited, “Maybe this time somebody will want to be with me” – then…POOF! Gone again.
Everybody seemed to look at me and go, wow it must be so easy to get a boyfriend looking like you do. But for me, it felt absolutely impossible. This kept happening over and over and over again.
I figured I was just unlucky in love. Nobody understood; it didn’t matter how much money I would make, or how good looking I could get. The results would always be the same, they would always leave me and I would be alone forever.
This started to change and then completely flip on its head when I started to fully understand this energy, and it really is an energy. Somehow I was repelling this energy. I was unconsciously rejecting love. Now it’s the opposite and it’s just a night and day difference I can’t even explain. I share this story because perhaps you too, have these love-energy blocks that are holding you back from what you really desire in life. I made a quick list for you to determine if this is the case with your individual situation.
How to know if you have love-energy blocks
- You can’t ever get past the first couple of dates
- You get blocked on dating apps often, sometimes for seemingly no reason at all
- You get stood up and canceled on, even at the last second
- You sometimes feel like an outsider, even within your own family
- You constantly go after narcissists or guys who won’t treat you well
- You think love belongs only to the good-looking, muscular, successful, masculine or rich people of the world
So where do these blocks come from? Well, they come from ourselves, parents, our family, our classmates, our acquaintances, our community and the outside world. Growing up gay it’s almost inevitable. Time and time again in the most critical first years of our lives we see examples that “PROVE” to us, that we will never be worthy of love.
-That’s gay, this is gay; gay people are disgusting. Gay marriage is wrong. Guys shouldn’t act feminine or be into “girly things.” Gay people should be shot; gay people shouldn’t kiss in front of kids. Sadly this example list can go on forever.
These examples bring about a belief pattern that can almost seem impossible to break.
Our results: more people distancing themselves from us, more rejection, more loneliness. It’s what we are used to, it’s our sick way of staying “safe” cause it’s what we are accustomed to. The pattern repeats itself again.
If you have these love-energy blocks, you must recognize them and eliminate them in order to create the joy and abundance of love you desire. This is the root cause of this issue.
Transcending love-energy blocks is no easy task, but it is very possible and I am here to help show you the way.
Do you have love-energy blocks? If so, what will it take for you to believe you are worthy of love? What strategy do you have to break this cycle?
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