It’s no surprise that the best day of my life was the day I had to have the most courage. After bartending at a local bar for a couple years and generally being a nice and social person, I figured I could throw an event myself. Heck, the bar needed people and I thought I could pack the place.
Turns out I could! My first event was amazing, my boyfriend at the time quickly joined in on my plan and we became quite the promoting team. But I wanted to go even further. I had done a few performances over the years and I thought why not combine the two? Why not host and perform at my own event? It could either be a total disaster or a night to remember.
So we began planning it and I and my amazing dancers got to practicing our routines. We called them the “Coyote Studly Dancers”, YESSSS!! I became more and more nervous as the day approached. I couldn’t sleep. Gays can be known for being judgmental, and I had to keep the thought about that out of my mind. I just practiced and practiced and did what I could to advertise it so I would at least be doing the performance in front of a real size audience.
The night came, and POW!!! The line up to get in came early and hard. It was lined up halfway down the block! When I came back from the store to get something we needed, a bitter queen of a man sharply said to me as he impatiently waited in the line-up to get inside, “this better be good,”
Talk about pressure!
So downstairs of the bar, I went to mentally prep for the show at midnight. I had gone all in. Not only with the event but with the performance. I was in top shape, I got special lighting brought in for the show, I brought in an amazing sound girl, and my talented best bud agreed to videotape the whole thing. AND, we were going to perform right on top of the bar!
It was a huge success. Even people I don’t think like me very much were congratulating me.
I was so freaking proud of myself. I still look back on that day and smile. Who was that guy who had those balls to put all that together and pull it off???!!
Here’s a clip of it! My Favorite Part
I’m telling you this story because I too was once very fearful of taking chances. I too lacked confidence and courage. But with work and slowly changing the way that I think, my life changed. And with that, I was able to have moments like in that video.
Moments that I will have and remember for the rest of my life.
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